Destinations vs. Goals
As I set out on my daily walk, I thoughtfully considered my destination for the day. How much time did I have? How far did I want to walk? Which end point was going to provide the most visual stimulation with a sense of peace and well-being?
Bam! I knew I was going to the pond on the other side of our community. The pond is so peaceful in the morning. The water is still. The way the sun shines on the surface makes it look like a mirror reflecting the surrounding trees, blue skies, and white clouds. There's always abundant wildlife...birds, a turtle, maybe a bunny, or a squirrel.
So, off I went to my destination with great anticipation of the visual and visceral reward I would encounter before heading back home.
Walking gives me time to clear my mind and reflect. Today, it occurred to me that using the word "destination" might be better than using the word "goal". Why?
A destination is the place to which someone or something is going. It creates the anticipation of moving from Point A to Point B. It has the promise of the future (however near or far) and the excitement of the journey (however short or long), with great reward at the end.
On the other hand, a goal is the object of a person's ambition or effort, an aim or desired result. However, a goal, described as an "object", feels more static, lacking in movement, or energy. It IS about an aim or desired result, but there's empty space between my starting point and where I'm going. That empty space is the "work" that needs to be done to achieve the goal.
Conversely, a destination conjures up the idea of the route one will travel to reach their goal. Hopefully, the route isn't just the work or effort to achieve the goal, but it likely includes visual, visceral, and intellectual stimulation like the destination of my walk...or a road trip you might take...or your plans for an upcoming vacation.
A destination for a professional goal might include what you will learn along the way, who you will meet, conversations you will have, and the positive connections you will make. You will create impact for yourself and others. You will do more than achieve a goal. You will grow, individually and professionally.
I believe there could be great benefits to thinking, acting, and feeling in terms of destinations vs. goals. Destinations are more colorful, vibrant, energetic, and stimulating. I feel uplifted, and eager, and excited to pursue a destination. My pursuit of a goal has the possibility of creating a sense of drudgery. It feels harder, driven, stressful, and tedious.
Which word do you prefer? Do you want to navigate to a destination or chase a goal? It's probably a personal preference, but I think I'll embrace the word "destination" over the next few months and see where I end up.
Something tells me it will be easier to traverse the paths to my destinations than to chase my goals. I'll let you know how I fare! Try it...I'd love to hear about your experience of pursuing a destination (vs. a goal), too.
